Backstory:
A few months ago I had gone out dancing at the Copa and met a friend and his mutual friend. The mutual friend and I hit it off right away as he works for the company that I worked for before I moved to D.C., therefore we have several mutual friends.
The Experience:
As I said, Friday night "the new friend" sent me a text asking if I was coming out. Truth be told about an hour before the text I was on the fence about it and decided to just stay in, but since I had the invite I was all "might as well", we always have a good time. After a few hours of dancing and talking and such "new friend" and I were on the dance floor, you know dancing, like you do at a dance club. When I noticed a guy, whom I will call "other guy" I know through a few other friends and having done some volunteer work with a local non-profit organization. Anway, "other guy" makes it a point to walk in, walk through the crowded dance floor, to stop us to just say "hello". I was all like "well that was awkward as fuck", but whatever. I honestly didn't think anything about it again until Saturday Night.
Saturday Night, "other guy" who had my phone number from a recent even we did for the previously mentioned not for profit, sent me a text message saying "hey. you have fun with "new friend" last night?" I said "I did, did you?" And then I said "So, you know 'new friend'?" he said 'Yeah, been a while. Y'all seeing each other? " me: "No." him: "been out more than once? I hope you have a good time. You start dating him, I promise to be NICER next time I see him." Me: "Ok. I'm gonna need backstory." Him: "Nope. But tell me if it doesn't work out. We can commiserate over a scoop of Rocky Road Ice Cream."
My thoughts:
What does it matter if "new friend" and I are dating? I am a grown man. I can make my own decisions. Why do you feel the need to project your negativity on me? I get it you obviously have some sort of history that wasn't a good experience for you, but WHY MUST YOU FEEL THE NEED to bring that into my life? I didn't ask for it. And finally your use of "Rocky Road" while funny to you was just down right offensive to me.
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